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I spent 30 years of my life in marriages, and through that time, I learned one of the hardest truths: no other person can teach you how to love yourself. Yes, someone can care for you, admire you, and even promise forever, but if you don’t believe in your own worth, none of that fills the emptiness inside.

When my marriage ended, I realized just how much I had placed my value in someone else’s hands. Divorce is not just the breaking of a relationship; it is the breaking of how you see yourself. Suddenly, you’re left with regret, grief, and often a heavy dose of self-hate. And that, I found, is the biggest problem.

The truth is this: before you can love anyone else fully, you must love yourself first. No partner, no friend, no family member can do that work for you. If you don’t learn to value yourself, it becomes nearly impossible to give or receive love in a healthy way.

It took me time, but I came to see that the real journey after divorce, or any setback in life, is not just about moving on. It’s about rebuilding. It’s about choosing to heal, step by step, and committing to the process of self-love. And the best news? You can start that journey today.